Ruth Violet Varner Rainear Agans 80 , passed away peacefully Wednesday May 27 into Gods Loving arms with her precious family by her side at her home in Florence.
Pre-deceased by her Loving family : Parents John Sr. and Violet Varner , Two Brothers John Jr. , James, Two Sisters June Carroll , Donna Disbrow,Uncle Timothy Varner, Niece Kelly Varner, Niece Linda Varner. Brother in law Theodore Disbrow Sr., Sister in Law Linda Varner All of whom are Graciously Welcoming her into their Loving Arms and saying “ Sugie “ we love you so much.
Ruth was her birth name however she was more commonly known as “Sugie” to her family because of her ultimate genuine caring and kindness.
Ruth Retired after several years of service at Acme Markets where she worked in the meat department. After her retirement she continued to live life to the fullest. She enjoyed traveling, going to various casinos , beaches or just going on a road trip .
She was quite a busy lady raising a large family consisting of Three Identical Triplets Fred , Frank and Floyd in addition to a Son Karl and a Daughter Ruth. Although never up for SaintHood she sure as hell should have been. We kept her going is truly a understatement to say the least.
Her cooking skills were stellar. They had to be because her family was like a Army and a hungry crew at that. We would go through a meal consisting of a Huge Roast , oversized pot of mashed potatoes in addition to several loaves of Wonder bread and still look for more.
Pre-deceased by her first husband Franklin H. Rainear Sr. in 1984.
She leaves behind to Cherish and treasure her memories Her Husband of 33 Special Years Charles Agans , Three Triplet Sons Frederick H. Rainear and His Partner Crist Clapper, Floyd H. Rainear and his wife ( Amy Kafer Rainear- Deceased), Franklin H. Rainear Jr. and His Partner Joseph S. Polakowski . A Son Karl S. Rainear, A Daughter Ruth M. Rainear Kounelias and Her Husband George, Two Grandchildren Lauren M. Rainear Drew and Her Husband Taf, Alex Kemble and His Fiancé Emily . Only One Surviving Brother Gerald Varner and His Wife Kathy. A Sister in Law Maryann Varner. In addition to Several Nieces , Nephews, Cousins, Extended Family and many friends all of who will miss her more than words can say.
In her last days while on Hospice she was extremely exceptionally cared for by her loving family at all times . This did not miss a beat once she passed her family ever so gently cared for her as they brought her carefully out of her home much like she did when she cared for them when they were young. Did you ever stop to think that as we were nurtured and cared for when younger that you could be doing that for your loved one someday. What a True priceless honor and privilege. Well all of us did as Mom would do for us at any waking moment.
Rest in Gods Loving Arms Mom ... after all you did and endured you surely deserve the absolute Royal Treatment
Thank you for all the love and kindness , caring for us when we were sick , making us a whole lotta scrumptious meals , sitting up with us when we had a bad dream but most of all thank you for being “ Our Mom”
No matter how challenging things became she always took the time to say “ Don’t Forget I Love You” Remember that
Mom May God hold you in his Gracious Loving Arms as you join with your family For eternity.
Private Funeral Arrangements have been carefully entrusted to her loving family.
A Celebration of Life Memorial Service will be held at a date to be announced In the very near future.
In lieu of Flowers please make a Memorial Contribution in her name to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
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